DR. SPANN HAS HELPED HUNDREDS OF COUPLES RECONNECT AND DISCOVER THEIR MAGIC. AGAIN.
SECURE RELATIONSHIP
Learn the skills to really understand each other’s sensitivities, wishes and desires.
SUPPORTIVE PARTNER
Co-create your ideal relationship and become the happiest couple you know. Again.
THRIVING LOVE
Quickly restore trust as you heal old wounds and discover how to protect your relationship for good.
Dr. Spann enjoys an 85% success rate.
Love is a Journey We Take Together.
Some of the goals of our journey together.
Feel safe with a therapist who really “gets” our LGBTQ community
Leave every session right side up and feeling positive
Overcome your biggest relationship challenges fast
Feel deeply understood by your sweetheart
Learn the skills to stop your fights from ever getting nasty again
Repair damaged trust, be vulnerable with each other and feel closer than you ever have
Every journey needs a plan
Whether your communication is a disaster, you’re weary of constant arguments or an affair has shattered trust, we can help. Schedule a call today.
Transformation. Authenticity. Impact.
ACT
During our initial consultation, you’ll get crystal clear on what to do next to create the relationship of your dreams. You’ll discover the #1 thing stopping you from having the relationship you want.
REPAIR
Choose from a laser-focused couple’s intensive or a slower process of therapy to help fix what’s broken. If you opt for a couple’s intensive, we’ll continue the process with a few 100 minute sessions so you can finally have your ideal relationship. Again.
THRIVE
With new relationship skills and deeper trust, you’ll grow your closeness, joy, and security as a couple for years to come. From now on you’ll enjoy that wonderful feeling of being understood. You’ll feel the ease of communicating successfully. And you’ll know exactly how to take care of one another during stressful times.
Unlike other therapists who use an out-dated 40 to 50 minute therapy sessions, I created a program that accelerates the work we do because we spend bigger chunks of time together. You get results faster.”
MEET YOUR GUIDE
Lynda learned how to love in a way that freed her to be her true self. You can too! She explored and found a deep connection (and community) through curiosity and quality self-reflection.
Through sometimes difficult and challenging exploration, Lynda discovered the courage to speak her truth with her partner and in her life, to move forward with authenticity and living out loud. This allowed her and her partner to co-create a deeply connected love relationship that is a safe place, from which she can explore herself as well as the big, alive world with complete curiosity.
Lynda was called to explore and discover the path to deep, secure, love. And to be the “Guide on the Side” of lesbian couples that are stuck on their own love path — needing help exploring new directions and discovering the equipment and skills that will make their love journey epic.
WHAT MAKES THE LESBIAN COUPLES INSTITUTE SO DIFFERENT?
You know your relationship is in trouble and don’t know where to turn. Maybe the passion in your relationship has drained completely out and you feel more like roommates than lovers. Perhaps you feel like life with your partner is a constant battle and you’re not on the same team. Or maybe you’re suffering from the crushing devastation of an affair and you have no idea how to heal from it on your own. Regardless, you still love each other even though one of you may not feel “in love” anymore. It’s why you’re searching for help to fix what’s broken.
The Lesbian Couples Institute knows the unique problems lesbian couples face. We understand the nuances of same-sex relationship challenges on both a clinical and personal level.
Instead of the typical every week or two 50 minute therapy session plans (that take a long time to create progress and often don’t go anywhere), you can opt to start with a 1 or 2-day couples intensive. An intensive is like getting months of therapy in one day! This type of concentrated and personalized counseling helps you rapidly and permanently break through the blocks in your relationship. After the intensive, you and your partner will lock-in your progress with a few ongoing 100-minute sessions.
Treat your relationship with the expert care and respect it deserves. At the Lesbian Couples Institute, we understand the distinct problems that lesbian couples struggle with, and we know exactly how to help you fix them.
Bring the security and love back into your relationship today!
Like what you see but don’t identify as a lesbian?
No worries! At the Lesbian Couples Institute, we work with all women that are in same-sex relationships. Whether you call yourself lesbian, gay, bi-sexual, trans, queer, or fluid…doesn’t matter. We’d love to help you fix your relationship problems. (We’ll even work with progressive straight couples and gay men, too.)
We offer lesbian couples therapy, lesbian couples coaching, LGBT couples therapy/coaching and many other services to improve your life.
Together you’ll create a love story that you never dared to believe was possible.
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In committed lesbian and queer relationships, finding the right balance between individual needs and couple goals is crucial. It’s a delicate equilibrium where too much dependency can stunt growth, and too much independence can create distance and insecurity. What does it really mean to balance these aspects in a way that’s healthy and sustainable? Understanding […]
Red Flags and When to Call it Quits
In this compelling episode of the Queer Divorce Club, Tera had the privilege of talking with Dr. Lynda Spann, the founder of the Lesbian Couples Institute. They delve into the crucial topic of recognizing red flags in relationships and navigating the difficult decision of when to call it quits or persevere to strengthen your marriage. […]
Relationship Help for One
Today I got a voicemail that sounded familiar. She said “My relationship needs help, but my wife doesn’t want to go to couples therapy”. Why? So many reasons a lesbian might not want to go to couples therapy. Here are some I’ve heard… My partner has a lot of trauma and she needs to […]
How much longer can you ignore the icy chill of disconnection between you and your partner? How much longer will you suffer from the vast loneliness of poor communication? Are you willing to watch your relationship crash and burn?
The Lesbian Couples Institute was created for women just like you. We want to help you and your partner communicate in a way that really works, fix the problems that keep coming up, and restore the intimacy in your relationship.
Isn’t it time for your relationship to be the best part of your life?
