TLC (Transforming Lesbian Couples) Online Course

The TLC (Transforming Lesbian Couples) Online Course is a proven relationship training for lesbian couples that want more connection and better communication!

Ready to take your relationship from disconnected, misunderstood, and stuck to reconnected, happy, and alive?  You can make your relationship thrive, again, in just 10 weeks!

Or are you in a newish relationship, and you both want to break the old patterns of blah, painful, or failed relationships from your past? By committing to this 10-week course you will create a strong foundation of security so that you’ll have confidence that this one will last! 


Best of all, the TLC (Transforming Lesbian Couples) Course is An On-Demand, From Anywhere Relationship Transformation Experience. 

You can be in your pj’s eating popcorn when you work on your relationship! It doesn’t get easier than that.

The TLC (Transforming Lesbian Couples) Course is for lesbian and queer couples who are BOTH 100% committed to creating a joyful, secure, thriving relationship for good.

Intro to online group coaching

Is this relationship transformation course right for you and your partner? Keep reading…

Love is a Journey we take together.

If you and your partner find yourselves in need of some help on your own relationship journey, then this is the course for you.

It was carefully designed by an expert Ph.D. level lesbian marriage therapist (Dr. Lynda Spann) with lesbian and queer couples in mind.

This on-demand, available from anywhere course is ideal for busy couples to get the love and relationship training they need without the challenges of scheduling and keeping in-person appointments.

Are you in a lesbian or queer relationship that feels lonely, listless, or on the brink? Is there a part of you that longs to feel cherished and secure in a relationship that’s full of joy, fun and love, again? 

This course takes you on a journey of rediscovery and renewal that will have you feeling like the happiest couple in the room. Again.

Are either you or your partner questioning if you’re “right” for each other because your relationship is so bankrupt?

Do you lay awake at night replaying unresolved arguments, feeling alone and misunderstood, or worrying that your relationship is teetering on the edge of a steep cliff?

Hesitant to even let yourself imagine feeling alive and in love with your partner, again?

Yet you’re looking for a thread of hope that you will have a future together that’s full of adventure, nurturance, attention, and the ease of being exquisitely tuned-in to one another.

I hope you can let yourself imagine a relationship that thrives with heartfelt connection, spirited discussions, playful affection, shared goals, and deep vulnerability. True intimacy.

Chances are you mostly feel sad about the distance between the two of you. And you’re exhausted and depleted from the negative cycle that neither of you have been able to stop.

You want nothing more than to stop walking on egg-shells, to feel safe again, and to travel through life with the woman or person you fell in love with. 

Deep inside, you dream of relationship growth and transformation.

If you’re struggling with relationship issues or pain, our TLC (Transforming Lesbian Couples) Course provides a clear path to relief, reconnection and resolving your problems quickly.

You Crave…

  • Great conversations where you both feel understood, and closer than when you started talking
  • Easily connecting emotionally, affectionately, and sensually
  • Knowing that your partner understands, accepts, and adores you
  • The ease of talking about even tough issues without fighting, blaming, stonewalling, or getting defensive
  • Balancing closeness and independence
  • An atmosphere of humor, laughter, and playfulness
  • To be on the same page about goals and dreams
  • Looking forward to spending the evening with your partner
  • A spirit of ongoing friendliness, appreciation, and gratitude
  • Both of you making your relationship the number one priority
  • Understanding how to help one another feel soothed and relieved when upset
  • Knowing, deep in your bones, that nothing can shake your intimate connection

“Dr. Spann was very professional while being personable and relatable. Her level of expertise made us know that we were in the right place. Dr. Spann had a large toolbox from which to recommend exercises and other ideas, allowing us to try a variety of therapeutic activities.” – Former TLC Student

Maybe you’ve searched everywhere for help and can’t find a lesbian who specializes in couples therapy or relationship coaching.

Your search is over!

Are you craving love and reconnection?

The TLC (Transforming Lesbian Couples) Course has been carefully designed to help you get your cravings met!

Transforming Lesbian Couples (TLC) Online Course

You’re Probably Frustrated, Sad and Lonely if …

Nothing you’ve tried has worked. Even though you’ve been working on this for months or years, not much has changed.

Perhaps you:

  • Have been avoiding arguments to the point that you’re hardly talking about anything meaningful
  • Feel hopeless about ever learning how to communicate so that you’ll feel heard and understood
  • Are tired of juggling life, work, and other responsibilities and barely have time for fun or intimacy anymore
  • Act more like roommates or business partners— sharing routine and practical chores— but nothing pulls at your heartstrings anymore
  • Have tried couples therapy, which seemed to briefly help, but things just went back to how they were…and you’re starting to feel that your relationship is beyond repair
  • Keep reading the latest “communication” tips to solve disagreements, but nothing seems to work long term.

If you’re feeling alone on your journey of love, strapped for time, and don’t know how to repair and rebuild your relationship…but know in your heart you both deserve more… this is the relationship course for you.

Stop settling for a stagnant relationship!

Let’s take this love journey together. So that you can rediscover your passion for each other, again.

This TLC (Transforming Lesbian Couples) Online Course is for Lesbian and Queer Couples Who:

  • Have been together beyond the initial honeymoon stage
  • Still love each other, but are feeling distressed and disconnected
  • Are in a newish relationship and want to get it right this time
  • Want to grow individually and together
  • Have read self-help books, tried or thought of therapy, dabbled with date nights, and are still not thriving
  • Want their relationship to grow and are willing to do the work to make that happen
  • Understand that an investment in their relationship is an investment in their overall well-being
  • Are unwilling to give up on their relationship without an honest try
  • Have struggled to make progress on their own and are ready to get help from an expert guide who has spent years discovering the exact steps for a successful journey of love

Who The TLC Course Is Not For:

  • Heterosexual couples or gay men couples
  • Lesbian or queer couples hoping for a quick fix or magical bullet and are unwilling to put in the work
  • Couples where one of you is stuck in the blame game, not taking your share of responsibility in creating change
  • Lesbian or queer couples who believe they can figure it out on their own
  • Couples where an ongoing affair, domestic violence, untreated addiction, or mental illness are present
  • One or both partners are not willing to give their all to the process of creating thriving, lasting love

The TLC (Transforming Lesbian Couples) Online Course is a proven lesbian and queer relationship transformation training program.

It’s the quickest, most effective way to learn to relate to each other with greater connection, less conflict, and more joy.

With this step-by-step system you won’t fail. Even if you’ve tried therapy before and you’re at a loss for creating lasting relationship growth.

In this TLC course, you’ll discover the path to a thriving intimate partnership with a knowledgeable guide on your side every step of the way.

During the TLC 10-week course you’ll get the tools and skills you need to…

  • Reconnect with your partner instantly
  • Become a happy and effective team
  • Understand each of your relationship dance styles
  • Stop a fight before it starts
  • Communicate so you both feel understood
  • Repair and heal
  • Embody brave vulnerability and steady curiosity
  • Grow individually and together

The TLC (Transforming Lesbian Couples) Course is not a flimsy, feel-good class with empty promises. It’s a thoughtfully designed, carefully engineered relationship skill-building system that will help even the most stuck couples succeed.

The reason why?

Clearly Mapped Step-by-Step Journey

It’s like having a relationship GPS at your fingertips. You’ll be guided every step of the way. With each lesson logically flowing from the last.

User-friendly Tools For Success

Experience immediate results when you have the right tools, tricks, and techniques. And don’t worry, these things are easy to master.

Ease of an at-Home Method

Watch the video lessons on your time-table from the comfort of your home. Then find snippets of time when the two of you can do the workbook exercises together.

Manageable Lessons

You won’t be overwhelmed or drained. In fact you’ll be invigorated by the bite-sized training videos that are full of practical steps and skill that will immediately help your relationship take a giant leap forward.

Expert Guide

Your guide on this journey of love, Dr. Lynda Spann, will help you accelerate your relationship growth and transformation. So that you can be the happiest couple in the room, again.

Lynda is the perfect guide for this exploration. Not because she has a doctorate in Marriage and Family Therapy, but because she’s walked in your shoes. She’s lived through the pain of a failing relationship and has now discovered the map for how to have a joy-filled, secure, and thriving partnership with her wife, Lisa.

Lynda has helped hundreds of couples like you get unstuck and create the relationship that they crave.

TLC will help you turn your relationship of loneliness, frustration, and hurt into one of connection, joy, and security.

Or if you’re in a relatively new relationship, TLC will set you up for long-term success from the get-go.

What you can expect from the TLC (Transforming Lesbian Couples) Online Course:

First and foremost, TLC is not a theory class on love.

This is a hands-on, experiential, fun program that delivers real, lasting results. Please don’t mistake our easy system for a temporary band-aid.

In the TLC course, you’ll learn foundational concepts, do fun exercises together, and master new skills and techniques that will lead to massive relationship growth and permanent change.

You’ll start feeling better immediately. And you’ll get to the level of being a thriving couple, fast! 

That’s because our TLC course curriculum is designed to be easier, faster, and more effective than traditional, theoretical learning.

The TLC course has been developed and honed over many years. It is a tried, tested, and proven system that delivers consistent, rapid, effective results.

Hoping and praying that things will get better in your relationship hasn’t worked. And therapy is expensive, often inconvenient, and takes a long time.

You’re lucky to have found us and to now know that there’s a better alternative to get your relationship on track to thrive.

This TLC course gives you practical tools and skills you can use right now to easily shift your relationship to the one you’re craving.

By the end of our 10 weeks you’re most important take-aways will be:

  • Seeing The Gleam In Your Partner’s Eye, Again
  • Feeling The Joy Of Daily Connection
  • Becoming A Power-team
  • Knowing Exactly How To Help Each Other When Triggered
  • Ninja Communication Skills (That Will Help You Talk About Even The Hard Stuff And Feel Closer)
  • Confidence For The Journey Ahead
  • Lot’s And Lot’s Of Fun And Adventure Along The Way!

This program has given us “us” back, we really do like each other and we really do want to be the best versions of ourselves together as a couple for the many years to come. Without TLC, this would not be possible. – Former TLC Member

What you’ll get when you enroll in TLC…

Welcome Packet:

As soon as you enroll in the TLC (Transforming Lesbian Couples) course, you will receive a welcome email to help you make the most out of the training, and fully prepare for the 10 weeks ahead. It will include:

  • Access to your Private Membership Site library and course
  • Strategies on how to cultivate the right mindset to create the relationship of your dreams
  • Organizational tips to maximize success and get the most out of the program

For 10 weeks, you will receive:

  • Five practical, effective relationship training modules with video lessons, recorded so you and your partner can have access anytime, for 10 weeks.
  • Five uniquely designed workbooks, full of exercises, writing prompts, worksheets, and tracking tools so that you and your partner can take your relationship to the next level.


Module 1: Foundation For Radical Relationship Success

Module 2: Brain Matters

Module 3: Roots to Relief

Module 4: Find and Define your edges

Module 5: The A-HA! of Relationship Transformation:  Maintaining Emotional Connection for Life

Frequently Asked Questions…

How much time can I expect this course to take?
Each week, you’ll have a training module with several short videos for you and your partner to watch. Combined, hey add up to be about one hour of total viewing time per module.

You’ll have a workbook (to work through together) with homework exercises for each module. Homework shouldn’t take more than 1 or 2 hours a week.

My partner doesn’t want to take this course. Can I take it by myself?
The TLC (Transforming Lesbian Couples) course is designed for couples, with practices for the two of you to do together. If your partner is resistant, just see if they’re willing to do a 15minute breakthrough session with you and Lynda. Sometimes resistant partners decide to join once they talk to Lynda and see how TLC can benefit them.

Do we both have to pay tuition?
No! Your tuition includes both of you.


What if we buy this program and find out it’s not for us? Will we get a refund?
Yes! I offer a 100% 90-day guarantee. As long as you complete the entire program (watch all the videos and complete all of the Workbooks) within 90 days, if you aren’t satisfied with your relationship results, I will refund your entire investment.

I don’t live in the United States…can I participate?
Yes! All you need is to be fluent in English and an internet connection.

Will my insurance pay for this course?
Unfortunately, no. Like gym memberships and other services that promote your well-being, a relationship course is not a service that the health insurance industry has chosen to cover.

Do you offer payment plans?

What if I have more questions about the course?
We’d be happy to answer any further questions you may have! Email [email protected] to get in touch.

If you’re a lesbian couple that’s 100% committed to creating a joyful, secure, thriving relationship and you’re ready for a proven plan to REAL change, this TLC (Transforming Lesbian Couples) Online Course is for you!  Can’t wait to see you inside the TLC Course!